Your dog is more than just a pet — they're a member of your family. And just like any meaningful relationship, the bond between you and your dog needs time, care, and patience to grow. 

Building a strong relationship with your dog leads to better communication, effective training, and more fun with your furry friend. Whether you’ve just adopted a new pup or want to strengthen your connection with your longtime companion, here are some expert-approved tips to help you build a strong, lasting bond with your dog.

1. Learn Your Dog’s Body Language

Understanding your dog’s body language is one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your bond. Dogs communicate how they feel through their posture, tail movements, ears, eyes, and overall behavior. 

Learn the difference between a relaxed tail wag and a stiff, alert stance. By recognizing their signs of stress, fear, or excitement, you can respond more appropriately to their needs and better manage potentially stressful situations.

Tip: Watch for signals like yawning, lip licking, or turning away. These often mean your dog is feeling overwhelmed.

2. Use Positive Reinforcement Training

Training your dog using positive reinforcement is not only effective, but it’s also a relationship builder. Rewarding good behavior with treats, praise, or playtime reinforces your bond and creates a safe space for learning.

Avoid punishment-based methods, which can damage trust and create confusion or fear. Instead, focus on consistency, patience, and celebrating progress. If you’re unsure or need extra support with positive reinforcement training, consider signing up for training classes at AHS.

3. Spend Quality Time Together

It may sound simple, but spending time with your dog—beyond walks and feeding—is so important for growing your relationship. 

Especially if you’ve recently brought home a shelter dog, they may need time to get comfortable and adapt to their new home before you can start any training. Simple tasks like playing games, going for walks, or just hanging out on the couch at home can help your dog feel more comfortable with you and their new environment. 

The more positive interactions you share, the deeper your bond will grow.

4. Be Your Dog’s Best Advocate

Advocate for your dog in new or stressful situations, and don’t force them into uncomfortable interactions with people or other animals. Pay attention to what makes your dog uneasy, and step in to protect their emotional and physical wellbeing. 

Example: If a stranger approaches you and your dog while on a walk and your pup appears uncomfortable, don’t be afraid to say no if they ask to pet your pup.

5. Create a Routine

Dogs thrive on routine. Predictable mealtimes, walks, play, and rest help your dog feel safe and secure, especially if they’re new to your home. When your pup feels safe and like they can count on you to follow through with their routine, it’ll be easier for them to trust you. 

A consistent schedule also reduces anxiety and can make it easier to train your dog, including potty training.

6. Practice Gentle Touch and Grooming

Regular brushing, gentle petting, or massage not only keeps your dog healthy, but it also reinforces your bond. Touch builds trust and comfort, especially when it’s paired with positive experiences. 

Take time to learn how your dog likes to be handled. Some love belly rubs, while others prefer ear scratches or just being near you. 

Bonus: Practicing cooperative care and touching with your dog from a young age will also set you up for success in the future for vet appointments, grooming, or emergencies. 

7. Be Patient and Present

Building a strong bond with your dog doesn’t happen overnight. Every dog is different—some are naturally cuddly and eager to please, while others take time to warm up. 

Recognize that progress may not happen as quickly as you want it to, but that’s okay. The key is to be present, patient, and attuned to your dog’s needs.

The bond between you and your dog is built on trust, communication, and love. By understanding their language, training with kindness, and showing up every day as their advocate and friend, you’ll create a connection that lasts a lifetime.